Male Chastity Cage Review

A little over a year ago, I decided to purchase my first chastity cage, so I turned to Amazon as I suspected I’d need to try out a few different models before finally finding a model, style, and size that fit just right, even if I were to replace it later with a better quality model. It turns our that I was very pleasantly surprised to be able to find a cage that fit just perfectly at a reasonable price and have been using it ever since.

What Is Male Chastity?

Male chastity is the practice of one partner controlling when or if the other partner may orgasm as well as how they may orgasm. This can be done within the context of a BDSM, FemDom, cuckold, or even a fairly vanilla relationship. In my case, my girlfriend decides when or if I may orgasm, though she orgasms whenever she pleases. She will often spend some time teasing me as she loves to play with my cock, but once she decides she’s done teasing, the play is over. It drives me wild, but I do love the feeling of constant arousal and of always feeling horny for her, and I love knowing that she’s always completely satisfied. If we’re having intercourse, I’ll always let her know when I’m getting close to climax so she can decide whether I should orgasm or not. More often than not, the answer is no. I’ll then proceed to give her oral until she’s satisfied.

Some couples practice male chastity by having the partner in chastity wear what’s known as a chastity cage 24/7. The cage usually consists of a cock ring which fits around the base of the penis shaft and the testicles into which is attached a cage which sits around and greatly constrict the penis. This is then locked in place via either a padlock or an internal lock. Often the partner in control will hold onto the key, though it’s not uncommon for the partner in chastity to hold onto an emergency key just in case.

In our case, I’m on the honor system. I don’t wear my cage 24/7, but rather only when I feel so aroused that I might be tempted to touch myself. Then I’ll put on the cage and will lock the key in a timed safe. My girlfriend hold onto the other key

What Are the Benefits of Male Chastity?

The most obvious benefits of male chastity are for the partner in control. They are always completely sexually satisfied whenever and however they desire and they have a partner who is always ready to please them.

For the partner in chastity, it varies. I love the feeling of constant arousal. It’s like a prolonged foreplay that can last for weeks on end. And the longer I’m in chastity, the more intense those feelings get. As someone who enjoys a touch of bondage and submission, I also love the feeling of my girlfriend being in complete control of my orgasms. We already have a signed contract indicating that she owns my cock, so the more aroused I get, the more I think of her. When I’m tempted to touch myself when I’m away from my girlfriend and I remember that I’m forbidden from doing so, it makes me feel closer to her. Feeling those urges almost seem like I’m feeling a piece of her inside of me. As she owns my cock, I must simply hold it for her and must refrain from giving in to the urge to touch myself. Otherwise, it would be a breach of trust. My chastity is my gift to her. I willingly give up my ability to orgasm in order to ensure that I’m always available and ready to please her.

The Chastity Cage

The benefit of wearing a chastity cage is multifold. First, it prevents any stimulation to the penis and it prevents erections. This is limits the ability of the wearer to have an orgasm, though an orgasm is still possible. However, an orgasm while wearing a cage necessitates using the mind. After a prolonged period of chastity play with a lot of teasing, wearers have been known to orgasm in their cages. This is fairly rare, and in my opinion, if the person in chastity is so aroused that they can orgasm just from using their mind, then they should be allowed to orgasm.

Another benefit of wearing the chastity cage is that by preventing erections, I find it makes it easier to sleep at night. If I can’t get an erection while I’m trying to fall asleep, it’s easier to drift off to sleep.

The thing I like most about being locked in my cage is that it feels like an extension of my girlfriend. It’s a constant reminder of the promise I made to her, and it feels more like I’m wearing a wedding ring than a bondage device. It fills me with a warm feeling whenever I notice it.

Of course, it’s necessary to remove it every couple of days for cleaning. As much as one tries to clean it in the shower, it’s impossible to get it completely clean without removing it. I like to clean mine with some anti-bacterial soap followed by a spay with some rubbing alcohol.

My Chastity Cage from Amazon

There are many chastity cages available from Amazon, but I finally settled on an unknown brand likely imported from China. When I purchased it, the company was called Ternence, but I can’t find the product anymore. The closest I could find to it, and what I believe to be the exact product is now known as the Chasteness Male Beginners Device Wearable Removable Stainless Steel Metal Protector for Men f137 (Size : 40mm). I prefer the stainless steel cages for the comfort (less chafing) and the ease of cleaning. Also, the angled cock ring provides for a much better fit. I could wear this cage for several days nonstop easily, and if necessary, I could wear it 24/7 without giving it a second thought.

The cage is the perfect size for the average penis. The width is perfect and the length is too. It’s better to get a cage that is slightly too short than too long. This cage provides just the right amount of restriction to prevent an erection, but still allows for breathing room.

The cock ring comes in several different sizes, so it’s important to measure yourself to learn what is the right size for you. The ring should be snug, but not tight.

Restricting blood flow can be quite dangerous, so be very careful with this step. It may be necessary to try out several cock rings before you finally decide to settle on a size for longterm wear. Even with three standard sizes available, I found it quite easy to find one that would provide just the right fit. I use Aquaphor Healing Ointment to lubricate the areas around the cock ring in order to prevent chafing. With the right sizing and a little bit of lubricant, I can wear my cage happily for days on end.

All in all, I’m very pleased with my Chasteness Chastity Cage from Amazon. For $35.04, it’s a great value. Most importantly, it’s comfortable, fits great, and ensures that I can remain in chastity for as long as my girlfriend decides.


The Best Vibrators

Sex toys can be life-changing, but shopping for them can be intimidating, especially for people who have never bought one before. After putting in 90 hours of research and testing—interviewing sex researchers, crowdsourcing opinions from enthusiasts, and analyzing data from seven volunteers who have tried more than 15 different models since 2014—we’ve concluded that the cordless Magic Wand Rechargeable is the best vibrator for clitoral stimulation.

Magic Wand Rechargeable

The best vibrator
No toy offers the same level of power and intensity as the Magic Wand. The Rechargeable is considerably more expensive than the Original version, but it’s worth the additional cost.

The Magic Wand has been a favorite of sex-toy enthusiasts for 40-plus years for good reason. Many of our testers described the Magic Wand Original as their “go-to” vibrator for clitoral stimulation, a toy that was almost always guaranteed to induce an orgasm when others could not. The Magic Wand Rechargeable is twice as expensive as the Original, but its easy-to-clean silicone head, rechargeable battery, quieter motor, and greater variation in intensity and vibration patterns make it worth the extra cost. The toy is durable as well as functional: Its maker, Vibratex, offers a one-year warranty, but several testers have reported that their Magic Wands have stood up to years of daily use without breaking.

Doxy Massager

Stylish and powerful
This corded toy is similar in shape, size, power, and price to the Magic Wand Rechargeable.

If you can’t get the Magic Wand Rechargeable, the Doxy Massager rivals that model in power and costs around the same, but you must plug it in to run it. For anyone who doesn’t mind the cord, the Doxy is a sleek and colorful alternative to the clinical-looking Magic Wand. Our tester found its control panel to be easier and more intuitive to use but preferred the shape and texture of the Magic Wand’s firmer, more angular head.

Maude Vibe

Affordable and versatile
This simple silicone vibrator is far less expensive than similar rechargeable models, and it offers a lot of power for its small size.

The no-frills, teardrop-shaped Maude Vibe is available only in utilitarian gray and comes packaged with its USB charging cord in a humble canvas bag. Unlike its more-expensive competitors, the Vibe offers only three vibration speeds and no fancy patterns, but the vibrations are so powerful that one tester reported that she went “from zero to orgasm in five minutes flat!” The discreet appearance of this small toy is also ideal for anyone who prefers a minimalist aesthetic.

Womanizer Classic

For suction and vibration
This model is an updated version of the toy that pioneered clitoral suction technology, with a less gaudy appearance and a more affordable price tag.

Womanizer’s suction vibrators have inspired a host of relatively inexpensive competitors, but our tester found that the original is still the best, if you’re willing to make the investment. The Womanizer Classic offers a pulsing suction sensation that differs from traditional vibration and that many have compared to the sensation of oral sex. The contoured shape of the attachment that fits over the clitoris is what sets the Womanizer Classic apart from its imitators, offering the most comfortable and precise stimulation of all similar models.

Zumio S

For precise stimulation
This toy’s oscillating stem is the best thing we’ve found for focusing intense stimulation on the most sensitive parts of the vulva and clitoris. The sensation may not satisfy people who prefer the more diffuse, broader stimulation of larger toys like the Magic Wand, though.

If you enjoy very focused clitoral stimulation, you may find the small but powerful Zumio S vibrator to be a highly effective tool. Zumio vibrators have the narrowest tips of any vibrators we’ve seen, concentrating and intensifying the vibrations within a relatively small surface area. The Zumio S’s small, rounded tip and lightweight, easy-to-control handle also make it a great choice for partner play, or for people with arthritis or limited use of their hands.

Latex-related Advice: How to prepare for a summer blast at the beach?

The time has come for summer preparations. If you want to look and feel good on your next holiday, there are a couple of things you will need to do. Here, we will talk about the necessary steps, the pros of using latex at the beach, and how to make the best of the upcoming summer holiday. 

Exercise a few months before

Summer is around the corner. And this means it’s high time to start thinking about your body. Many people start thinking about it too late, and it is impossible to make a difference or even spot signs of progress on such short notice. If you plan on going somewhere, visiting a beach, or just being ready for summer, you will need to start exercising a few months before. 

In the ideal world, everyone would exercise regularly, and the rapid approach of summer wouldn’t bother anyone. But instead, we live in a world where food tastes yummy, and it is so easy to get carried away. 

So, if you are wondering if it’s time for you to start exercising, the answer is yes. You will need a few months to get your body in shape, and the sooner you start going to the gym, the easier it will be. Getting progress over a longer period of time is always a better option, so start thinking about it as soon as possible. 

Eat your summer diet

Going to the gym is just one step of the process. If you plan on exercising, you should know that it won’t be enough on its own. You will also need to think about what you eat. Having a proper diet will help you get results in time for the summer. You can always consult your nutritionist and create a plan that will allow you to get the necessary nutrients and be able to progress and see results. 

The most important thing is to have regular meals and focus on eating the right type of food. Now, it is nearly impossible to create a universal diet that will work for every single person on Earth. 

Try not to put a lot of stress on your body, and make a drastic change. The entire experience should be enjoyable, and allow you to progress. Unfortunately, it might also mean that you will need to ease on candy and sugars, and all the food we love. At least for a little while. But having the right diet will make a world of difference, and you will be able to see progress before you go to the beach. 

Apply sunblock protection

Being exposed to sunlight can damage your skin. And if you stay for too long, you will burn. The simplest solution is to use sunscreen. There are many different products you can find on the market, and they offer different levels of protection. When choosing a sunscreen, your primary goal should be to pick the one with a high SPF or sun protection factor. 

The higher the number, the better the protection. The factor is used to determine how much UV light can the sunscreen filter. Of course, you would have to know how much time you plan on spending in the sun and account for the type of your skin. Those with lighter skin might want to go for higher protection. 

While it might seem like an insignificant addition to the list, the last thing you want is for your skin to burn and ruin the rest of your vacation. Finally, if you plan on spending a long time on the beach, be sure to reapply the sunscreen every couple of hours. Even if the product claims to be water-resistant, it is not true. Water and sweat will still wash it away, and you will need to reapply it again.

Wear your best latex swimsuit

Once your body is ready, you have sunscreen in your bag, and you planned for everything, the only thing left to do is grab your favorite latex swimsuit and go for an adventure. If you don’t own a swimsuit made of latex, you can find many incredible models. In the past couple of years, the popularity of latex went through the roof. More and more companies are willing to explore different creations and models using this material, which gives you plenty of choices. 

But if you already have your favorite swimsuit, all you need to do is put it on and enjoy the time you spend with your friends or family members. One of the main advantages of latex is that it is a natural material. There are no chemicals included, it’s eco-friendly and biodegradable, and it looks amazing. Even materials like spandex have latex in them. 

It will also give you an opportunity to show off your body and take pride in the hard work you made. Getting in shape is not easy, and why not use this chance to show your progress to the world? Of course, some people have a latex allergy, which will make using this material impossible. In that case, you will need to search for an alternative. 

Do activities with friends and socialize

If you want to have a perfect time during your holiday, you can always start by creating a list. Based on the location you’re visiting, you can choose landmarks or places you want to visit. Anything that seems fun to you and your friends is a good idea. And it doesn’t need to be anything special. If you enjoy spending time in the local pub, that’s an option! The most important thing is to take time to enjoy and socialize. After all, everything is a lot more exciting if you share it with your friends. 

You will be able to have fun, enjoy the summer months, and create beautiful memories that will last you for a long time. One of the things you can do is create a to-do list with your friends, and make a plan on how to have a perfect holiday together. 

Get wet and get that tan

But one of the most exciting things about holidays and beaches is doing nothing. Just enjoying your time in the sun, getting tan, and living your life to the fullest. You can also bring fruits and veggies on the beach with you, and they will make a tasty, healthy snack. Needless to say, it would be a shame if you don’t jump in the water from time to time. 

Swimming, playing with your friends, and getting a perfect tan will make it worth your time. Once again, you and your companions should always use sunscreen to avoid damaged skin. You want to get tan. But being crispy might be too much.

So, grab your sunscreen, your favorite swimsuit, drinks, ice cream, or whatever you might enjoy. And prepare for having an unforgettable adventure with your gang. Beach preparation with latex is the safe way to go, and it will allow you to prepare for it on time. If you don’t have yours yet, check out the collection of latex bikinis and swimsuits from this laidtex link https://laidtex.com/collections/latex-bikinis-and-swimsuits.

Everything Straight Men Shouldn’t Miss Out with a Prostate Massager

Why do so many straight men avoid prostate stimulation or the use of toys like P-spot massagers? Well, a prostate massage can have many sexual health benefits, and it can also improve your prostate health as well as your general wellbeing. So check out this guide to prostate massagers and prostate play to learn more!

Prostate Stimulation and Orgasms 

Generally, straight men are not the biggest fans of prostate stimulation, and most of them have never tried it. Men usually tend to neglect their butts in favor of penile orgasms, but most guys have no idea how much they could enjoy it.


Prostate stimulation, anal play, and P-spot orgasms are some of the most powerful ways to pleasure yourself. But sometimes, a prostate massage could be off-putting if you try it and end up feeling pain or discomfort. 


Another reason why many straight men could avoid prostate milking is the assumption that anal play could make them gay. However, this is outright incorrect. Anal sex can be enjoyed by men of all sexual orientations, regardless of if they are straight, bi, or gay. In fact, prostate massages were officially introduced in the 1800s as a medical procedure to treat prostatitis or prostate inflammation. But, this is actually an ancient practice that was used many centuries ago. 


If you are solo or in a relationship and you want to explore the pleasures of the prostate, you can try various sex toys for men to specifically target that spot. 

Body and G-Spot Exploration

We all know that men usually explore their bodies in only one or two ways. That is, they get pleasure from their dick and balls and generally ignore all other types of stimulation. However, a sex toy like a prostate massager could help you understand how your body works. 


If you’ve always been envious of women and their ability to orgasm in several different ways, you may not have known that your prostate is very similar to the female G-spot. It can also bring you waves of intense anal pleasure that you’ve never experienced before! But what exactly is the prostate, and how can it bring you such intense orgasms? 


The prostate is actually a small gland that you’ll find in your rectum. It’s right underneath the bladder, and it has a walnut-like shape. It has a soft fleshy texture, and it feels very similar to the female G-spot. That’s why we sometimes refer to the prostate gland as the male G-spot or the P-spot. Moreover, the shape, size, and location of this gland depend on the individual. Some men could have larger prostates, while others could have smaller glands located further inside their rectum. 


Either way, the prostate is packed with sensitive nerves and is a highly sensitive erogenous zone. When you massage it correctly with fingers or anal toys, it will release prostate fluid. This milky fluid is not the same thing as regular ejaculate, though, and your prostate usually releases it after a strong full-body P-spot orgasm.


New and Better Experience

As mentioned, most straight men only focus on the same old techniques that make them orgasm from penile play. That includes jerking off, vaginal sex, blowjobs, etc. However, the prostate is pretty much the only spot in a man’s body that can bring you an entirely different type of orgasm


Typically, most guys who’ve tried it successfully agree that P-spot orgasms are more intense and noticeably different from penile orgasms. For some, they can feel localized, while others can feel orgasmic waves flowing all around their bodies. Plus, many men love it because they simply enjoy the sensations of butt play. Even if they can’t always reach a prostate orgasm, anal stimulation is enough to push them over the edge and make them have a much more intense penile orgasm. 


Still, it all depends on your prostate, the toys you use, and the type of pressure you seek. For example, you may not be able to get a P-spot orgasm if you stick your finger inside and massage the spot for several seconds. Also, beginners could take some time to have an orgasm, but with enough training, you could learn to reach them pretty quickly and on an everyday basis. By far, the most reliable way to reach this unique and unusual orgasm is to use a prostate massager.


If you’ve never seen one, prostate massagers have a unique design that targets the P-spot. They often have curved ergonomic tips that cup the prostate and massage it with various doses of vibration. 

Resolve Virility Issues in Men

By increasing your circulation and the amount of seminal fluid, a prostate massager can also help you improve your sexual performance. Basically, when you orgasm from your prostate, you release an enzyme that plays a crucial role in testosterone production. This will cause stronger orgasms, but it will also boost your testosterone all around. And we all know that more T equals a higher sex drive and increased energy. 


Moreover, in some cases, prostate massages are used on men who have difficulty getting an erection or getting aroused. Yes, using anal toys can make you hornier. It can boost the blood flow to the P-spot and therefore help with any erection issues. This is one reason why doctors recommend a prostate massage as a way to treat erectile dysfunction (ED). 

Health Benefits from Prostate Massage

Aside from the above benefits, prostate massagers can improve your health in many other ways. For one, the prostate is closely linked to men’s immune systems. Massaging it improves the white blood cell quality. That keeps you safe from viruses!


What’s more, the technique can help to alleviate prostate swelling or prostatitis without the use of antibiotics. A massage can help you decrease the swelling or inflammation and return your prostate to its original state. In some cases, this technique may help you to prevent prostate cancer. 


Moreover, the best benefit of a prostate massager is that it feels good. It can improve sex for you and your partner to transform your relationship and bring you closer together. It also opens a window to various other sex acts that you can use to spice up your sex life and orgasm like never before!


Now that you know all about the exciting benefits of P-spot massages, it’s time to enter a whole new world of prostate pleasure! So get your prostate massager today and have fun!

Why Men Should Not Be Scared of Penis Plugs

Imagine how amazing it would feel if you could have serious pleasure both inside and outside of your penis simultaneously. Various men have valued the unadulterated fervor, and with this accommodating sexual assistant and guide, you additionally can acknowledge penis fittings, wands, and urethral sounds securely.

The primary concern you need to check is the way by way the plug is inserted. These sex toys are accurately made to allow safe urethral play. Penis fittings and urethral sounds regularly have twists, finished surfaces, or even pointed tips, yet the arrangement itself must be appropriate for the male (and female) urethral frameworks to allow safe use. Penis additions and urethral sounds ought to be made with the goal that they mull over a smooth and safe inclusion. The primary thing that you have to do is to guarantee that the inclusion end of a penis connection is smooth and made of thick smooth metal so as not to hurt the urethra during addition. Check to ensure there are no pods, scratches, harsh edges or free metal filings or pieces as most penis fittings are handcrafted. In case you’re purchasing from blocks and mortar store, ensure that it is a great grown-up store with bunches of good audits.

The whole surface zone of the penis plug ought to be smooth without any spots where the skin can get captured. Exactly when checking the penis plug, confirm that it’s made in a way that ensures a solid fit and that will keep it in place without any issues. It’s basic that a penis attachment is safely fitted so it won’t go further into the urethra than is proposed. This is why the penis plugs need to be examined carefully before being put into use. If you add a glans ring or a stopper it will ensure it stays there for the required period.


In case you’re simply beginning you can use something with a little adjusted tip that is smooth. This is to guarantee that no harm is done to the sensitive urethra, it is for the security of the pole. The more extraordinary, bulbous and finished styles are for those that are regarded to be further developed and these are the ones that will expect you to stir your way up to. In such manner you have to learn with respect to how to swim before jumping off into the profound end brimming with different penis attachment shapes, sizes, and surfaces.

The best plug will be the one that will accommodate your urethra in the most ideal manner; with as meager extending as could be expected under the circumstances and the least opposition. Try not to go to little as there are dangers in such a manner too. It should be a cozy fit, not a tight fit.  Some of our writers who have been using penis plugs got their first plugs from lovegasm, they have a huge collection from beginners to experienced users.

For the most part, it’s incredible to have a penis plug with a ring or an enlarged end so it doesn’t slip in and get lost. Like how a butt-centric attachment functions, what you’re searching for is a rod-like piece with a blocking shaft. Concerning material, careful tempered steel is the most secure and most generally utilized any way you will find attachments and silicon. These materials are body sheltered and simple to sanitize in the wake of utilizing. Neither careful steel nor silicone will hold microscopic organisms, and as they are non-permeable and can be quickly sterilized after every session.


We feel compelled to tell you this that you should utilize a sterile Lubricant. Lubricants will support your sound or plug glide into the right spot easily, while the sterile lube will protect you from disease or from harm. A sterile lube like surgi-lube is mind-blowing or for more term play something like SuperSlyde. Although note that whichever grease that you utilize that it is critical to pee subsequent to utilizing a sound, in order to flush out any residual particles. This ought to endeavor as quickly as time permits subsequent to utilizing any type of grease. Any particles that remain could have different substances, microbes or different things that can join themselves to the rest of the ointment and offer reason to different issues later down the track.


Your first fitting ought to be straightforward and simple to embed. Before insertion, use some lube and unwind, relax. Ensure that the fitting has been sanitized and is a great idea to go. Before you even get the fitting again you ought to guarantee that your hands and penis are perfect. A few people will even utilize careful gloves for the cleanest experience, and this is astoundingly mainstream in specialist assume circumstances and pretending. For the record, the eye of your penis is commonly somewhat more extensive than the urethra, remember this when you’re attempting to choose a size.

You should set aside the effort to end up stirred. Regardless of whether your thing is comedian sex, fat develop ladies, or even gay pornography, slip on your preferred film with the goal that you can raise your degree of excitement. Take as a lot of time as required and welcome a whole new universe of satisfaction. Start while your penis is in a limp state and gradually embed the module into the eye of your penis. Holding your penis at a 90-degree point from your body, step by step slip the sound or attachment in.

Your first endeavor may be a moderate procedure, particularly in case you’re somewhat focused or restless. Go moderate. Simplicity in a little it, unwind, and let the urethra also unwind before endeavoring to embed the sound in any more profound. Endeavor to let gravity and the largeness of the sound maneuver the sound down into your penis. By then once it’s in by more than three inches, it will typically rotate insignificantly with the bend of the urethra. Try not to endeavor to push past this point until you have turned out to be knowledgeable about utilizing plugs.

Unlocking Your Vagina’s Potential Through Yoni Eggs

An integral part of Eastern culture for many centuries, the Yoni Egg or Yoni Egg is becoming increasingly popular among women of all ages, even in our latitudes. In addition to the potentially positive effects of the gemstone, it is above all a matter of strengthening the musculature of the pelvic floor with the yoni egg.

What is a yoni egg?

The yoni egg is an egg-shaped gemstone. Especially popular are jade, rose quartz and rock crystal. The word yoni comes from Sanskrit and means translated “origin”. In Tanta, the word Yoni is used as a term for the female reproductive organs. As the name implies, yoni eggs are gems that can be worn vaginally to strengthen the pelvic floor. So Can a yoni egg get stuck? The answers are there now.

This is how to prepare your yoni egg

Once you have a new yoniegg, cook it off for about 10 minutes. You should put it in cold water in the pot and only then boil. If you give the egg to the already boiling water or pour it over, it can get a jump. With lime water you can add a small dash of vinegar to the water so that the egg does not calcify after cooking. Before using, you should warm the yoni egg slightly. You can put it in warm water, for example, or warm it up with your hands for a short time. After use, wash with mild soap and water, allow to dry well in the air and store in the provided bag. You should not use the egg during pregnancy, menstruation or illness.

Use the yoni egg correctly

You can compare the yoni egg very well with vaginal weights or love balls. If you have already gained experience, you can easily transfer your previous exercises to the egg. If you are new to the field and do not know exactly how strong your pelvic floor is, you should start slowly. It’s best to get three different sizes and try out the size that feels best for you. At the beginning, you should not wear the egg for more than 10 minutes at a time and always attach a retrieval tape.


Also on the pelvic floor muscle you can get sore muscles and therefore you should not overdo it. At first you try to hold the egg only. Depending on the strength of your muscles, you may often lose it at the beginning. If your muscles are already stronger, you can train specifically with the egg. You can move it up and down, for example, by touching and relaxing. In addition, the yoni egg can be used in meditation. You can pull it up with the muscles with the inhalation and press it down while exhaling. If you are much practiced, you can also use it as an additional challenge in yoga.

Positive effects of yoni egg

With regular use you will soon notice the positive effects of your workout. Your pelvic floor muscles are strengthened and by doing so you not only prevent bladder weakness but can also greatly improve your love life. A good pelvic floor muscle can help you get to orgasm easier and faster. Also, your partner will feel your starched muscle.

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Which is the best?

There is no ultimate yoni egg that can be described as “the best” for every woman. Every lady use to be different. Based on which gemstones the eggs happen to be made of, these give off distinguished energies that correspond to one of the phases. Now it is important that you choose the yoni egg that suits your current situation. You do not have to do this alone; you can rely on the help of blogs so you can get the most informed decision. There are yoni eggs available at this website as well as expert advice in choosing the right one for you.

It is also important to know that you usually only need one yoni egg at a time. By properly training and building muscle, you know best when to move to the next one. Thus, you can build me the time an assortment of high quality Stone Eggs.

What’s in the application?

It is important to know that this is not a normal egg, but a gemstone egg, which can be made from different types of gems. For this reason, these training products are often referred to as jade eggs, as earlier and today for the production of jade is also used. The introduction of the egg in the vagina is said to trigger many positive effects in the woman. Here are to name especially:

  • Strengthening of the pelvic floor muscles
  • Increase blood circulation
  • Improvement of digestion
  • Help with sexual trauma
  • Protection against fungal diseases
  • Protection against infections
  • Increase in orgasmic capacity
  • Weaknesses of menstrual symptoms
  • Increase in sensitivity

Balancing the hormone balance

In this way different areas of a woman’s life can be improved and made more pleasant. Of course, it should be noted that every woman feels and experiences the positive qualities of this gemstone egg differently. In any case, it can be expected that the women will be pleasantly surprised by the application.


How is yoni eggs used?

The application of the yoni egg is very simple and can be used by any woman. It is important not to use a lubricant, petroleum jelly or another chemical bomb in order to introduce the egg more easily. It is a natural process that should be completely natural. In order to simplify the first insertion, you should lay down relaxed, so that the “spitting effect” can be made slowly. This is about slowly and gently welcoming the yoni egg.

Practicing Safe and Enjoyable Urethral Play

Sounding? Does that have anything to do with sound? No! An emerging trend in the BDSM world is the insertion of an object into the urethra. The inserted object is called a ‘sound’ or ‘urethra plug’. It is actually a form of masturbation in which the urethra is penetrated with the object. How do you sound? And what are the Do’s and Doníts? Is urethral insertion safe? We explain!

Sounding, how do you do that?

Sounding literally means the insertion of ‘something’ into the urethra. Stimulating the urethra can be done by both men and women. Yet we see that the trend is particularly popular among men. Many men find the feeling of a stretched and pungent urethra very pleasant and exciting. The stimulation is carried out with a specially made toy or attribute. You can do this with a penis plug or with a dilator. It can be placed in the urethra until the prostate is reached. The stimulation can then be done in different ways. This allows you to make rotating or downward movements with the sound.

Penis plug or dilator

A dilator is a, usually quite long, bar of surgical steel. This material ensures that it is very easy to clean. They also do not break, so this works safest. The penis plug is often shorter, with a ring at the end . This ring can stimulate the glands extra during the game. The difference between a dilator and a penis plug is mainly in use.

The penis plug is mainly used for extra stimulation. It can make the penis more sensitive, that an erection lasts longer and that the orgasm feels more intense. There are even hollow penis plugs. These make it possible to pass urine and semen. So you can also continue to wear very well if you want to use a penis plug for extra stimulation during sexual intercourse. The dilator is longer and is mainly intended to stimulate the urethra.

There are many kinds of dilators and penis plugs available online. You can check out this online store because they have a site wide sale here for a cheap cock plug.

Types of dilators

Dilators can be divided into different categories:

Hegar – The hegar sound has a curved S shape and two ends with different thicknesses. These sounds are easy to insert and are relatively short. This model is therefore very suitable for people who want to try sounding for the first time. Example of hegar dilators is the single silicone dilator of 6mm.

Rosebud – This is one of the best known dilators and also very suitable for novice users. The sound has a ball at one end and a flat handle or rod at the other end. The top is specially designed for stimulation of the bladder. These toys can also be used by women. An example is this set of 3 dilators with round top.

Dittle – The Dittle resembles the Rosebud. However, unlike the Rosebud, this toy does not have a spherical end. The other end of the Dittle is flat and shaped in the shape of a triangle.

Van Buren – this is the most popular dilator among experienced users. This dilator has a characteristic J-shape and is very long. He is also bent at the end so that he can hit and stimulate the bladder or P-spot in the man.

Pratt – the Pratt is a curved dilator that has a convex shape at both ends. This dilator is slightly longer than other models and can therefore be inserted deeper. This dilator is suitable for both men and women. An example is the Single End Dilator

Vibrating dilators – these models are primarily intended for people who have used a sound more often. You can masturbate with vibrating models. The vibrations provide an even more intense feeling.

Before you start sunning

Before you start sundering, it is important to pay attention to a number of things.

Choose the right model: Inexperienced users can best start with a single model, or a set with different sizes. As a beginner, prefer to leave out an extended set or a vibrating dilator. Do not go directly for a long model. Opt for a plug or a shorter sound, such as a Hegar dilator.

Choose the right size: Sounds have different thicknesses. A set is useful to test which thickness feels the best for you. The narrowest dilators have a diameter of 1.5 mm to 2 mm. The thickness dilators have a diameter.

Choose the material: Almost all dilators are made of stainless steel. This material is sterile. Yet there are also silicone dilators available. These are very suitable for men who want to try a dilator for the first time. The soft silicone material is extra easy to insert and feels less stiff.

Your Vagina’s Fitness Journey Starts With a Ben Wa Ball

The system of fitness exercises wobbling was created by engineer Vladimir Muravskiy. The methodology developed by the famous Russian activates passive vaginal muscles in just a few weeks. The fitness wobbling system turns women into sex goddesses. But wobbling has additional benefits:

Fitness for vaginal muscles: Fitness training of the vaginal muscles stimulates blood supply and hormonal exchange, maintains the balance of vaginal micro flora and increases the immunity of intimate parts. It slows the climax and prolongs the sexual youth of women. Fitness training of the vaginal muscles relieves labor and helps women to regain their form more quickly after birth.

It can be used as a natural contraceptive. Well-developed vaginal muscles and cervix can induce sperm fluids to prevent unwanted pregnancy.

Fitness training of the vaginal muscles improves male potency. Elastic and strong vaginal muscles prolong male erection.

Fitness training is a great anti-cellulite therapy. Vaginal muscle training also loads femoral, buttock and abdominal muscles. Enhanced blood circulation in the intimate area improves the condition of the skin in the area of ??the hip. Fitness training of vaginal muscles stimulates the production of pheromones that attract representatives of the opposite sex.

Fitness techniques to develop vaginal muscles

For starters, you have to determine which your vaginal muscles are. It is not difficult. Just try to stop urinating and you will feel the muscles tense. Then try to stretch them yourself and hold them tight for about 10-20 seconds (learn to shrink vaginal muscles without shrinking your femoral, buttock or abdominal muscles).

Vaginal muscles are divided into 3 parts – lower (at the entrance to the vagina), middle (the muscles of the vagina itself) and upper (to the cervix). The next step is to alternate tension and relaxation of the vaginal muscles as quickly as possible. The last part of the workout involves pushing as a child. Start with a workout of 10 slow restraints and relaxations, 10 quick restraints and relaxations, and 10 pushups 5 times a day. Add 5 reps each week until they become 30.

It is even more effective using a special simulator or vaginal balls that are also sold in sex shops. Lubricate the spheres with a lubricant and insert them into the vagina. Tighten the lower muscles, take a deep breath and try to reach the ball with the vaginal muscles in the middle. Then try to move the ball up and down and left to right. As you progress, perform the upper vaginal muscles. So now you know what do Ben Wa balls feel like.

Ben Wa balls

Ben Wa balls are the name of a sex toy, which consists of hard balls strung on a cord with a diameter of about 1 to 2 cm. The balls are usually made of plastic, but other materials such as metal are sometimes used. To learn more of the different kinds of these vaginal balls, you can check and purchase ben wa balls here. This cord is placed in the vagina or anus and moved back and forth. The friction of the balls can stimulate sexually. It is the intention to remove the balls at the time of orgasm.

Many women know the problem. After a pregnancy, or as we become older, the pelvic floor muscles relax. As a result, when jumping or sneezing we can lose a little urine and feel less during sex. This makes it more difficult to achieve orgasm and an orgasm is less strong. For this blog you need to dived into the books on pelvic floor muscles and read everything that was loose and stuck on vaginal balls to write a good and clear summary of how, why and with which balls you can now best train.

What are vaginal balls?

Vaginal Balls or Ben-Wa balls make you train and strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, but can also be worn for sensual pleasure for example, as foreplay. Stronger pelvic floor muscles not only prevent incontinence but are also good for fine sex with more feeling and you can more easily reach an orgasm. In addition, orgasms are also experienced as more intense by trained pelvic floor muscles.

Cone balls or Ben Wa balls have existed since the year 500 and are from ancient Asia where Geisha’s with the balls trained their pelvic floor muscles to bring the men into ecstasy. That is why Ben Wa Balls are also called geisha balls. Furthermore, you often encounter them under the denominator of vaginal balls, cone balls or pleasure balls.

If you want to work on your perinea tonicity with Ben Wa balls, it is better to choose evolutionary systems. Indeed, as for the choice of dumbbells, it is possible to opt for more and more heavy balls to promote more muscular work.

What spending two weeks in a chastity device taught me about my sexuality and my marriage

I had no idea how much of my daily interactions with my wife were subtle negotiations for sex, but my wife sure did. She’d come to accept it as part of being married to a man

Over time, my sexual needs became lesssingularly focused on the end goal of orgasm, and more focused on courtship and on her
Over time, my sexual needs became less singularly focused on the end goal of orgasm, and more focused on courtship and on her. It’s “Locktober” again, the month where men willingly lock their genitalia up in chastity devices in the hopes of making it “hands-free” for 31 days. Some do it for the kink, some for the challenge, and a great number do it as a way to be more present and engaged with their partners (called “keyholders”). Though I could never do a whole month, I did do it for two weeks, and what it taught me about my sexuality and how it can dominate my marriage was nothing short of revelatory.

First, some context. As an erotica writer, I wanted to understand the common theme of chastity for huge penises to write more believable characters. My wife agreed to be my keyholder for two weeks and unlock me only if she desired it. I had a spare key to unlock for safety reasons and maintenance, but not for any other reason.

With these rules in place, our dynamic changed within three days. What had started as some fun denial play became something else entirely. Once my wife trusted that I really was “locked up” at her discretion, she felt free to interact with me without every action being viewed through my sexual needs, which we dubbed “the barter system”.

Simply put, I had no idea how much of my daily interactions with my wife were subtle negotiations for sex, but my wife sure did. She’d come to accept it as part of being married to a man. But now, if my hand lingered too long on a caress, my cage made the motivations painfully obvious. Call it cognitive behaviour therapy for my penis.

Beforehand, her being playful with me was viewed primarily as an invitation to sex. Now it could now exist on its own. My listening to her day wasn’t partially “putting in the time to earn sex,” because sex wasn’t an option. I was liberated to enjoy the act of listening.

Subsequently, she opened up physically and emotionally and I enjoyed being the emotional support a husband is supposed to be. Over time, my sexual needs became less singularly focused on the end goal of orgasm, and more focused on courtship and on her. Closeness, caresses and bonding took prominence over my desire to get off.

I still wanted sex, but I was free from the dishonest dealings of my libido. I wanted sex as an accompaniment to intimacy, not intimacy as post-coital add-on. This distinction was huge. When the sex did come, it was better both physically and emotionally for us both.

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There were other benefits, too. My locus of thought moved from “me” to “we”. She felt more entitled to her needs and filtered her words less.

I also learned the multiple roles masturbation played in my life and which ones weren’t helpful. It was healthy to use it as a release for sexual frustration during a week when there was just no time for sex, but it didn’t stop there. I used it when putting in the time to get my partner in the mood seemed like too much effort. In that sense it was lazy man’s sex that I benefited from, but denied my wife that intimacy, and treated sex like a chore.

When left without masturbation I sought other options. Intimacy with my wife (in a reciprocation-free environment for her) allowed her to ease into the enjoyment of it and allowed me to be a part of her pleasure without filtering it through my own. Needless to say, that was a lot of fun for us both.

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If I was stressed, my new avenue was one that had always been there: I talked to my wife about it. She had great insights but mostly she just listened. The stress went away, and unlike the short-term benefit masturbation provided, I got longer term benefits like companionship, trust, vulnerability and reassurance.

I emerged from my two weeks with my masculinity intact, but a deeper understanding of what it meant to be her man. And we emerged a happier couple.

I wore this male chastity device for a fortnight so you don’t have to

Man, I love fondling my penis. As is well-documented on these very pages. Other people fondling my penis is great too, since you ask, but that’s another story.

Yet even such a committed onanist as I must occasionally ponder whether it’s actually a force for good or ill in my life.

Could it be that squandering my seed, as all those joyless little NoFap weirdos insist on framing it, somehow diminishes my potential as a man? And what if there’s a way to lay off the dolphin-flogging that doesn’t require willpower? When an opportunity arose to try a male chastity device for a bit, curiosity got the better of me – and before I knew where I was, I was signing the Yodel geezer’s little PDA to accept delivery of my shiny new wang guard.

What can I say: it was Dry January and self-flagellation was all the rage. Anyway, here’s what we’re dealing with: Plastic alternatives are available too, if you’re a puny wimp who doesn’t take genital self-mutilation seriously; a sad little weasel unwilling – or, let’s face it, unable – to put in the hard miles on the highway to self-denial. In case you’re here for a handy how-to: unlock it, separate the parts, pop your nads through the scrotal ring, slide the shaft bit around your dong, secure it, then clasp the padlock back on. But always read the instructions first. Sadly I’m not allowed to model it for you (curse those Metro prudes), so this requires a little imagination on your part.

My penis looked… pathetic. Defeated, somehow. Like a hunchbacked, medieval serf – head bowed, clapped in irons for stealing one of his Lordship’s chickens. I gave my wife the key, not because she’s a sexy dominatrix, but because she’s a trustworthy grownup who always knows where important household items are stored. She was all in favour, by the way, and I suspect rather looked forward to a spell of peaceful weekend lie-ins. Indeed, when I jokingly suggested she swallow (the key), the love of my life put her headphones on and pretended I wasn’t there.

That first evening I wore my magical chastity device mooching around the house, as a normal person might when breaking in a new pair of brogues. The extra weight takes a lot of getting used to. It’s actually uncomfortable and weeing through the gaps in a metal cage while sitting down feels so… barbaric. Nope (Picture: Getty) In the interests of journalism I read around the topic and discovered broad consensus within the male chastity community (oh, it exists) that overnight is the trickiest time, because you can’t help your raging nocturnal boners.

A kindly soul on Reddit advised I slather up with baby oil before beddybyes and be ready for a rude awakening. How right he was. About 5am, having carefully arranged the pillows so I stayed on my back, the inevitable surging erection made itself known. The device was already pretty tight around my member, even when flaccid (cos I’m such a giant stud), but now my luckless schlong was doing its morning stretches, for the first time ever, under lock and key.

Again, Metro would probably take a dim view of me sharing a photo. So imagine a lonely little bearcub in some sketchy foreign zoo, pathetically squishing its hairless, malnourished flanks against the bars of a teeny-tiny cage. Tragic, really. But the pain rapidly forced my dick into retreat, so the problem went away. I guess that’s a win? MORE: SEX These are the sex trends you can look forward to Sex doll maker helps grieving men by recreating dead wives in silicone Male contraceptive gel could soon become a reality I had a couple of meetings to attend the next day, and so was forced to brave the outside world.

I had zero qualms about my inevitable massive pants bulge. If some foxy lady on the Tube happened to glance at my crotch and marvel at my blessed package then so much the better. But again, the weight thing. It’s just not enjoyable. Also, pro–tip: wear the tightest underwear possible. Anything loose and the little padlock flops around when you walk, making you sound like the Tin Man. At my meetings I must say I felt a little racy wearing it – naughty, like I had a dirty secret that could be exposed at any moment. But again, the pissing thing.

In a singularly unlovely south London public toilet I retreated to a stall – the urinal was hardly an option – and sat down. Without doubt, the clang of my dong-trap on the porcelain made the queue outside think I’d dropped my heroin spoon. Honestly, that probably would have been less embarrassing. As the days wore on I grew accustomed to the discomfort. I stopped wearing it 24/7, because even the pros don’t do that. Plus – to be blunt – there’s a whole pre-cum-leakage-stench issue that gets quite unmanageable around day three.

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Popping it off overnight meant I could rinse it under the tap and leave it in a tupperware by the bedside, sort of like wearing a brace. This, but for cock (Picture: Getty) The more time I spent with it, the more I found myself obsessing over who it’s actually designed for. Not whimsical journos, that’s for sure. Cheating spouse is an obvious one. I have a mate who has serious issues keeping it in his pants – he claimed to love the idea, until I sent him a picture of my dick inside one. A rather sweet target market that never occurred to me until someone online suggested it, is men who ejaculate too quickly.

Which is basically all men, by the way. The idea is you wear the device and thoroughly take care of the missus. Then, and only then, do you get unlocked. I actually tried that with the wife, but sadly in my excitement I started clanking, which apparently was ‘like being eaten out by C-3PO.’ Nosing around the chastity community, it seems ‘control’ is the main motivation. Some people love a bit of discomfort in their sexual routine. As a potential aid to curtailing daytime masturbation it’s pointless. Half the reason I jack-off is to shut out the horny thoughts, not draw attention to them.

Weirdly though, I do miss my little private pee-pee prison. This must be what Stockholm Syndrome feels like. Well, cock-holm syndrome, anyway.